You’ve leafed through your fair share of bestsellers about mindset and personal growth.

You’ve sat through eye-opening TED Talks that gave you a glimpse of the life you could be living.

You’ve had more a-ha moments than you can count listening to podcasts and following some of the best thought leaders on LinkedIn and Twitter.

But you’re left feeling like:

"All those things should have changed my life by now"

Instead, you’re stuck. You're wondering:

"What have I missed?"

It's not that you don't have the motivation.

It's not that you don't have the self awareness.

It’s not even that you don’t know enough.

You’re a high performing professional who’s sacrificed a lot to get where you are today and yet, your nagging question is still:

"Why do I feel so dissatisfied?"

You’re pretty sure you could pull off the change you want to see in yourself … if you weren’t so tired of:

  • Being at war with yourself and feeling like you’re your own worst enemy

  • Having one foot on the pedal and one foot on the brake and getting nowhere

  • Feeling like your brain, body and beliefs are holding you back

  • Playing it safe to avoid risk, failure and putting yourself out there

  • Watching everyone else succeed and thrive, knowing full well that it could’ve and should’ve been you last week, last month, last year

  • Stalling, stagnating and clinging to the status quo to stay comfortable at your own expense

  • Carrying the burden of mounting aspirations but struggling to turn your good intentions into real action

But here’s the thing. Other people have been right where you are.

You’re not alone

Take a deep breath and realise that all of those people you admire have something in common...

Not one of them did it alone!

Just think:

No Olympic athlete ever made it to the podium without a coach worth their weight in gold.

No musician ever got to the top of the charts without solid strategies and fans cheering them on.

No senior leader or executive ever succeeded in their job without support from the board.

And yet all this time you’ve been pressuring yourself to have a breakthrough all by yourself.

You know it’s time to get help from a coach who understands you and a programme that helps you grow.

But, there's a problem

Everywhere you look there's another gimmick

What you want is a game plan that delivers growth … real growth


Introducing:

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MYMindset™ is the missing link that takes you from self-awareness to self-authoring using science-based tools

It's a well researched, scientific and systems based approach to accelerate change.

Transform the way you think in 3 steps:

  • Life-Style Inventory™ (LSI).

    Developed by Dr. J. Clayton Lafferty, the Life Styles Inventory™ (LSI) measures 12 specific styles of thinking that are either helping or hurting your personal effectiveness and growth.

  • 5 Coaching Sessions

    No ordinary coaching sessions! MYMindset™ is a unique synthesis of systems thinking, immunity to change and daring leadership combined with the care of an accredited practitioner.

  • Re-test, Review & Celebrate

    What gets measured gets done! You'll get access to the LSI assessment not just once, but twice so you can measure your growth and celebrate your success!

Your personalised coaching programme:

In MYMindset™ you’ll  dig deeper and understand your mind better than any book, podcast or video you’ve consumed.

We’ll combine real data and outside-the-box thinking tools to tackle your immunity to change. So you can finally make that leap.

Through private one-on-one sessions with Tom, your professional accredited coach, you’ll discover your objective, decide on a game plan, and get the accountability your need to make real, results-driven change in your life.

You'll develop a clear, simple and practical action plan to keep you anchored so that you don't revert to your old ways.

And after you’re finished, you’ll walk away feeling lighter, happier and more satisfied than you have felt in a long time.

It works because:

It's based on adult development and vertical growth.  It helps you to handle variability, uncertainty, complexity and ambiguity.  This is the type of growth that makes the biggest difference in the "knowledge age".

Imagine ...

Having a little extra expert help in your back pocket to help you finally break free from the thinking patterns that have been holding you back

Break free with a coach

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You're probably thinking ...

In short, YOU!

MYMindset™ is a proprietary approach that draws from a wide range of research breakthroughs in psychology, philosophy, sociology, business and productivity.

Unlike other coaching programs that follow a hyped-up affiliate empire, playbook, and list of 'to-do's,  MYMindset™ is based on Socratic methodology and modern science.

MYMindset™ will teach you a foolproof dilemma-busting set of thinking tools that I discovered in a completely unrelated industry (that few people know about!). And it’s going to change the way you deal with internal conflict. Not just throughout the programme but for the rest of your life.

You’ll never see a dilemma or paradox the same way again because you’ll actually be able to solve it and find that elusive “third option” every time you feel cornered by your constraints.

As part of your MYMindset™ journey, you’ll get access to the world-class Life-Style Inventory™ (LSI) assessment not just once, but twice. One at the very beginning to create a benchmark and one at the end to measure your change. Unlike personality profiling, the LSI actually measures your growth and development. You’ll be able to see your Passive/Defensive, Aggressive/Defensive and Constructive thinking styles mapped out in the form of a circumplex diagram. Think of it as a picture that paints a thousand words about your mindset.

No other self-assessment tool uses the same level of precision to measure the thinking and behavioural styles that are helping or hindering you.

All of us have a system of rules, policies and beliefs in our heads. They show up in our thinking and behaviour. With reliable data about your thinking styles at your fingertips, and a dedicated coach to guide you,  you'll be able to explore your own system.  That's where MYMindset™ and the science of systems thinking comes into play.

When you get the second LSI assessment, you’ll be able to see the change in your mindset and the progress you’ve made. Yes, you can measure your mindset.  And what you can measure you can master.

Life Styles Inventory™

The Life Styles Inventory™ helps people of all walks of life develop constructive thinking and behaviour styles so they can improve their job performance, quality of interpersonal relationships, and problem-solving effectiveness.

Get your LSI assessment

Use a world class tool to master your mindset:

  • Discover new ways of thinking and behaving

  • Improve your effectiveness in your role

  • Cope better with stress, pressure, and change

  • Achieve self-set goals

  • Apply more flexible and creative thinking

  • Improve your interpersonal relationships

  • Increase your personal effectiveness

  • Get more harmony in your life

The Life-Style Inventory™ (LSI) has been referenced in numerous books, blog posts, journals and newspapers, including The Journal of Applied Psychology and The Wall Street Journal.

Results like these are more than achievable

(These could be yours)

Following the 3 Step programme this client developed a personal strategy and three key objectives that set them on a path to transformation. They got results early but decided to keep taking action before the re-test. They have since moved on to MYLeadership™ to develop their leadership capability.

In as little as 12 weeks you’ll feel the relief of releasing those brakes and putting your foot on the gas.

You're here because you want to get past:

  • Chasing other people’s approval

  • Living by other people’s rules

  • Staying low on your priority list

  • Butting heads with other people

  • Staying caught in a power struggle

  • Competing with yourself and your peers

  • Startings things you don’t finish

  • Resisting change

  • Being no farther ahead next month or, worse, next year

And you’ve been longing to:

  • Understand your thoughts and behaviours better than ever before

  • Learn how to author your own thoughts and behaviours

  • Create better connections with loved ones

  • Strengthen your relationships at work

  • Fast-track your learning now and in the future

  • Fuel your own growth

  • Increase your confidence and satisfaction

  • Get more done as a person and with others

  • Finish everything you start

Now it’s time to take action!

By now you will have the gist of it.

Being stuck is common, you’re not alone, coaching helps, this is a science based programme with an experienced coach with great reviews.

Discover more by enrolling in the FREE PREVIEW and taking a no obligation ‘test drive’ for yourself.

    1. Welcome, let's get you started ...

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    1. The LSI Report debrief - Your results!

      FREE PREVIEW

    2. Life Styles Inventory™ Self-Development Guide

    3. Which thinking styles will you be working on?

    1. Self Development Guide - Introduction

    2. How to Use Your LSI and Self-Development Guide

    3. What the LSI 1 measures

    1. Coaching session - Personal Objective 1

    2. Objective 1: Share your insights with your coach

    3. Coaching Session - Personal Objective 2

    4. Objective 2: Share your insights with your coach

    5. Coaching Session - Personal Objective 3

    6. Objective 3: Share your insights with your coach

    7. Coaching Session - Personal Strategy

    1. It is time for a re-test

    2. You're almost done!

    3. Before you go...

    1. Why get a coach?

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    2. Measuring vulnerability: the key to unlocking "daring" vs "armoured" leadership

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    3. Why do we find it so hard to change?

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    4. How can we measure mindset?

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About this course

  • 4 X $495.00
  • 43 lessons
  • 1.5 hours of video content

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There are two ways to get started ...

Choose the option that works for you

  • Payment Plan:

    4 equal monthly payments of $495. The full price is $1,980.00 (NZD).

  • Single Payment:

    1 payment of $1,584 (NZD). That's a 20% discount already applied.

The Payment Plan:

If you want to ease your cashflow, pace your investment and the ability to opt out.

  • Ease your cashflow

    Ease your cashflow and pace your investment. Get two LSI assessments, one at the beginning and one at the end of your 3-step journey. The programme normally takes 12 weeks but we will stay with you until you are ready for your re-test. If you need extra sessions - just ask.

  • Peace of mind

    Confidence is the key. The first payment covers the initial LSI assessment and one 90 minute coaching session with me. You may cancel after that if you decide the programme is not for you, no questions asked. If you decide to cancel, you’ll still walk away with the LSI results in hand and insights from the first session.

  • Success Community

    After you complete the programme, you become a part of our success community where you’ll get access to special client discounts and future events like masterminds, 'live' online sessions and workshops.

  • 4 x $495.00

    MYMindset® with Tom Parrish

    Ease your cash flow by spreading your payments of the full price of $1,980.00 (NZD). This option allows you to cancel after the first payment if you decide the programme is not for you - no questions asked.
    Ease my cashflow

The Single Payment option:

If this is long overdue, you know you need it and you're ready.

  • "I want the discount"

    If cashflow is not a problem for you then this is your option. If your organisation is paying they will want one invoice and one receipt. The discount will help you convince them.

  • "I'm ready to unlock my potential"

    Let's get started straight away while there are still places left. I don't want you to miss out.

  • Success Community

    After you complete the programme, you become a part of our success community where you’ll get access to special client discounts and future events like masterminds, 'live' online sessions and workshops.

  • $1,584.00

    MYMindset® with Tom Parrish

    That's a 20% discount already applied to the full price. Popular with clients wanting their organisation to fund their development and who need an invoice and a receipt.
    Give me the discount

Frequently Asked Questions

  • I know I could use a coach. But how do I know we’ll be a good fit?

    I believe in listening, guiding and equipping, not subjecting you to a cliché cookie-cutter approach. I don’t judge, rush or pressure you, and whenever you feel like you’re having a “block,” we’ll stop and work through it together.  The people I’ve coached tell me that what they love the most about my programme is that I allow them to lead. You’ll own the process, not me. I’m there to give you the right tools and teach you how to use them. And the thing is they actually work—and anyone can learn how to use them. My goal is to help you get to a point where you don’t need me anymore. It’ll teach you how to tackle any situation moving forward. If you’re skeptical right now because you’ve seen too many gimmicky salesy coaching programs out there, I totally hear you. Just go with the monthly plan option for the best flexibility. That way, if you change your mind, you can opt out after the assessment and first session.

  • How does the payment plan option work again?

    If you go with the 4 x $495 (NZD) option, the first payment covers the Life Styles Inventory™ assessment and a full 90-minute coaching session. After the session, if for any reason you decide you just can’t stand my guts, you can end the programme and cancel the rest of the payments. You’ll still walk away with the LSI results and pdf documentation detailing our coaching session. I’m positive that even if you decide to discontinue for whatever reason, you’ll have gotten a ton of value out of the LSI and the 90-minute coaching session.

  • OK, I want to go ahead with the payment plan option. What can I expect next?

    After you make the first payment of $495 (NZD), you’ll receive a welcome email from me. You’ll receive an email from Human Synergistics International with a link to the assessment. It should take you 30 to 40 minutes to complete. It takes three working days for HSI to produce your comprehensive report and send it to me. After I get the report, we’ll meet for a 90-minute session. That first session will be a “technical debrief” where I’ll explain how to read and get the most insight out of your report. We’ll paint a picture of your future self and the real life tangible benefits you will gain.

  • I’m intrigued by these Life-Style Inventory™ (LSI) by Human Synergistics International. How are they going to help me?

    You need robust and reliable data about your thinking styles in order to create an effective plan. What you can measure, you can master. My clients love the LSI assessments because: - They’re much more helpful than personality tests. Personality tests can help us in our emotional intelligence, but they don’t teach us how to develop and grow. 
 - They show a clear connection between our thinking habits and our behaviours. And then through coaching, we can uncover the beliefs that drive our thinking and behaviour—and how to re-engineer ourselves for better outcomes.
 - They can actually measure your progress. I haven’t had one client yet who’s gone through the whole coaching program and not seen a visible improvement on their second LSI at the end.
 - They serve as a visual reminder of where you are (or once were), how far you’ve come and where you want to go.


  • What can I expect from the Zoom coaching sessions? Are virtual coaching sessions effective?

    Most of my clients love the Zoom sessions, and many of them love it even more than the in-person sessions I used to conduct. The sessions involve you and I working through your thinking patterns on the “board,” talking it through and then coming up with a clear, achievable action plan.  For our “board,” I’ll take you to a special online collaboration tool called Miro. Don’t worry. Even if you’re not tech-savvy, you’ll find it easy to use because I’ll tell you exactly what to do when. The most you’ll do is click on a virtual sticky note and type a few words. Most of my clients absolutely love the visual component of the sessions because it’s the first time they’ve ever been able to “see” how their mind works on (digital) “paper.”

"Know thyself" - Socrates

Knowing who you are now is the first and most important step in deciding who you will be in the future. Years of research have established that the information needed to allow insight, growth and self-improvement to occur is contained within our thoughts

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